Friday, May 18

About being an Adult School Boy


This week after spending just two days as "Chris_minor" on an asb site that seems to have been stopped, I'm talking a little around what I was so much looking forward to chatting there about.
You see, at one point when I considered writing this blog, I had said in a rather matter of fact way it wasn't going to be about being an adult schoolboy or adult little boy and that is quite true because the bias tends to be on past boyhood.
This said, because the way my life actually is I'm living that way and inevitably I do end mentioning bits of it so I might as well write something about it although my own understanding won't be everyones.
People of all genders do regress to the past in different ways sometimes more by doing things connected to their pasts such as a past-time, interest or hobby or by physically becoming that 'child' by dressing more like they used to.
This generally comes from a state of actually 'being' that little - in this instance a little boy - at a mental and physiological level as it works through how  they play letting out their younger 'inner child' side in a fluid natural way rather than acting out a role play which is more where 'age play'  comes in.
It's just you  letting a side of you that is there all the time out to play.
For some people it is a response to things such as trauma or learning/developmental disabilities for others still it's just calming 'place' to be for a period before returning to any necessary adult chores and responsibilities. It doesn't matter which and none is more virtuous than the other.
Some do play with things such as toys, colouring, play, traditional board games or read sometimes books from childhood or connected to it like stories about school days which at least here in Great Britain is a popular thing.
Like the adult schoolboy shown, when I do this I have clothes that go with it and for me  this does involve both formal clothing such as tailored shorts and grey schoolboy socks as well as t shirts and pe type shorts for play wear I originally experimented with that in hindsight clearly was an indication of my own age regression needs.
It was actual school uniform with a red sweater, white shirt, grey shorts and socks that I last week wore to met a man who let's me be that little boy under his wings.
A combination of a greater interest around wearing school uniform post school leaving age and the need to cater for actual 'plus sized' children and the internet has made it easier to get uniform from suppliers on Ebay, amazon or high street stockists off the shelf  easier.
One doesn't have to use specialist adult school wear suppliers unless you're wanting more bespoke items nor does one doesn't have to trape around Marks ands Spencers or as I did at the time BHS in the uniform department sizing things up. 
The kind of look of a British Schoolboy was one I did emulate at the time rather like that picture  although I would say I took care to remove excess arm and leg hair apart from shaving my face so what I saw was rather more like a  junior version of me rather than looking like an adult male stuffed into a school uniform.
I don't like preaching but I think this does matter.
For some the allure of the return to school days can be strong  which is one area I tend to be a little forthright over which is to say the idea of coupling your regression, your wearing a school uniform and having actual lessons (or following actual school study guides) can be a great one.
Sometimes we forget some of what we have learnt which has everyday import such as letter writing or say times tables or maybe like me you didn't do too well so a 'second chance' would help you.
Some places not least over here do have actual adult schoolboy (and girl) classes run typically at weekends although I'd suggest doing some research first as to exactly what's on offer if it might appeal. It's not uncommon with consent for them to feature corporal and non-corporal punishment which is something some do look for and to which as far as I'm concerned is fine if that's your thing.
What I come down hard on is where it seems the entire point of attending is to get a spanking  and most of the time is taken up with that rather in British terms being a re-run of a pre 1987 class where you would only if you break clear and usually serious rules while actually studying to a syllabus with tests.
To summarize, I feel there is a benefit for a good number in age regressing and letting out their adult schoolboy side that not only may help with might be troubling you for the calm and structure it can bring but also help potentially with things in your more adult life.

1 comment:

  1. Are there any such places on the Wirral where I can be an adult schoolboy and not get strange looks from people?

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